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Why are women so cruel?
I can’t count the number of girls who have rejected me recently, and I’m sick of it. There is something I’m doing wrong, but I have no idea what it is. Other guys I know breeze into meeting girls, and getting lucky, and girls will even invite me in for coffee and then spring something unexpected on me like they are seeing someone else. Yep, that actually happened. Got drunk with this girl, went home with her, she invited me in "for coffee", and it literally *was* just coffee… and a cold shoulder. Another girl spent all night talking to me at a party I was at, shutting out other guys, flirting heaps, only to then just leave without saying a word. I mean seriously, why are women THAT cruel to me? I can handle someone not being interested in me, that’s fine, but to basically treat me like your personal confidence booster by sending mixed messages is just bitterly cruel. Are women seriously like this or am I just taking it too personally?
Yeah I’m a little thin skinned, I know that, but seriously that’s no excuse to mess with someone’s head.
As I said, I can handle being rejected, I can totally handle someone not showing interest in me! That’s completely fine! What I can’t handle is a girl giving me signals like she is interested, only for her ego boost. I know guys do it too, but I don’t do it, if I don’t like a girl I won’t flirt with her. Somehow I am finding it very hard to meet a girl like that, and it’s been a long time.
"these women are just being friendly, and you are misconstruing this friendliness as ‘flirting’."
are you serious? i know what friendly is. I have female friends and I know what being friends with a girl is like.
I know it sounds like I’m being slimy, but if you think there is something slimy about wanting to kiss a girl you think is attractive then I think you are mistaken.
thery are testing your will
Nikkle | Feb 05, 2010
They are made this way.
Wade | Feb 05, 2010
Maybe you’re expecting too much too soon.
There could be a number of things that are going wrong and not all of them are necessarily because of you. Don’t let these girls get you down and out. Stay positive because there is someone out there for everyone.
Best of Luck
Curious2Know | Feb 05, 2010
Maybe you are picking bitchy girls… they are usually the prettier ones
and they are usually at parties and bars and stuff. maybe go for someone more with a "sweet" vibe?Muffin | Feb 05, 2010
Dish it back… Unless you want to find anybody, if that’s the case, suck it up, because that’s life…
Personally, I don’t even bother, I’m hoping I’ll just get a lucky break someday.
Edit: Pretty girls don’t go to bars, pretty girls can pick up sober guys.
Guardian Angel Mitchell | Feb 05, 2010
You’re a little "thin skinned" man up, many woman play hard ball, they are usually highly intelligent and good at it.
Terry | Feb 05, 2010
may be you should try doing the same with the girls. Frankly i think that you are yet to meet the right woman
ekom | Feb 05, 2010
You are taking it too personally. Life is full of different people. Women are no more cruel than men. There are cruel people out there though. If someone gives you the brush off like that then ignore them. I’m sure you wouldn’t want that sort of person in your life anyway. Unfortunately you have to wade through the crap before you get to the prize. Same with anything in life. Don’t let it get you down.
I’m a woman and I’ve never done either of the things you said. I’ve had men do them to me though. It’s not you it’s just life.
Tegan | Feb 05, 2010
It’s probably just you, maybe there’s just something about you. Try to find out. Next time you’re with a lady, maybe just ask what you did wrong, and say that you’d like to work on it. Sure, she’ll think you’re a freak, but at least you can figure out what you’re doing wrong.
To be more attractive to women, dress appropriately, freshen up your breath and smell, be nice and funny. Don’t let it be awkward.
I’m friends with heaps of girls, and they’re all very nice. I think you’re taking this too personally.
Goodluck though!
Jeff | Feb 05, 2010
Women arent cruel however they are emotional you may have said something wrong the fact that she paid you any attention says she liked something about you maybe your personality wasnt what she was looking for romantically but she thought u’d make a good friend or maybe the girl just wasnt easy you gave examples of girls u’d just met and seemed as tho you expected to have sex or become their boyfriend try making a move next time ask for a number and take time to get to know her have some respect and be confident
Kimberly-Jerte' | Feb 05, 2010
Yes, they are being a little b*tchy, I could certainly see why you would think that
OR these women are just being friendly, and you are misconstruing this friendliness as ‘flirting’. The seem to be nice to you, which there is no problem with. They think that you are someone to chat with, that you might be nice to talk to.
You are in the wrong here for thinking that every woman who talks with you, and is friendly with you, will of course want to go home with you later That is ridiculous. None of this seems to be really poor behavior on their part, actually, when you look at this from the perspective of ; she was being friendly, and was NOT flirting with you at all.
You just got the wrong idea, I bet. They aren’t being cruel. They aren’t leading you on, or teasing you. I think that you, for some reason, are under the impression that there women are coming onto you just because they are talking to, and being friendly with, you. You should not be under the assumption that there women should be going home with you every night, because that is not what they are implying.
If everything IS how you see it (it’s not, trust me; you’re wrong here), then maybe it’s not the women; it’s you. Have you ever tried to evaluate your personality? Perhaps there is something about it that is off putting.
holymell | Feb 05, 2010
you ARE just taking it too personally. Step 1: give yourself higher standards. You NEED to have higher standards.
Step 2: you may be emanating that overly-slimy vibe (I don’t even know you and i can sense it from all the way over here), which, even if girls are attracted to you, they will be scared off by it because you may be mistaken for a player.
STOP SEEING EVERY GIRL AS A POTENTIAL BONE!
Step 3: Since all these girls seem to see you as the perfect male "girlfriend", you might as well make the most of it and BE their girlfriend, and you may actually learn a lot more about girls and subsequently score with a ‘10′ you never envisioned. 
Who knows!!!!!! right???????
Positive affirmation my friend. It works….
pjl | Feb 05, 2010
Haha sorry to laugh dude but that invited in for cofee and it actually was coffe too funny, are you sure she didnt want you to have your way with her? Women usually expect confident action on the mans part, Im almost guessing she was more confused than you were. but like other posters said u is hangin out with da bad girls wat u be expectin? you need to give up on them and find a nice girl that will treat you with honor and respect
Wavirox | Feb 05, 2010